🗣️ How do I bring up Secret Codes?

Goal: Spark curiosity, provide safety, and create desire for joint discovery – without pressure.

1. Choose the right moment

Quiet situation, no stress. Ideally after a good conversation.

2. Entry: Light & appreciative

Start with the Why. 'I've been thinking...'

3. Explain the game idea simply

Short, clear, no jargon. 'A code game for impulses...'

4. Emphasize safety & voluntariness

Everything is voluntary. STOP is always possible. Boundaries are respected.

5. Curiosity instead of overwhelm

Start gently. 'We could start with a beginner version.'

6. Leave room for reaction

Listen. Don't convince. 'What does this idea trigger in you?'

7. Joint decision

Don't decide alone. 'We can try it as a test.'

8. Clear next step

No big commitment. 'Want to start with 5 simple codes?'

9. Ensure debriefing

Talk about it afterwards. Togetherness comes first.

10. Attitude

Open, Curious, Non-judgmental. The game is an offer.